How long should I take to decide on a house?

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Choosing a house is more than just a financial decision—it’s a step towards building your future, creating memories, and investing in your long-term happiness. With so much at stake, it’s only natural to question how long you should take to decide. The reality is, there’s no one-size-fits-all timeline. The time you need will depend on your unique approach, priorities, and experience in the property market.

Let’s break it down and explore the different types of buyers to help you figure out what timeline might work best for you.

The thorough researchers

Some buyers approach house hunting as if they’re solving a puzzle. These are the planners who want to know every detail before they even step inside a property.

What they do:

  • Spend weeks (or even months) browsing online listings and researching local crime rates, school rankings, and neighbourhood amenities.
  • Compare property prices and historical trends to ensure they’re getting value for money.
  • Gather opinions from estate agents, friends, and family to ensure all perspectives are covered.

Thorough researchers often take longer to make a decision, sometimes weeks after viewing a property. Their methodical approach ensures they are well-informed, but it’s important for them to trust their instincts when the right property ticks all the boxes.

If you’re a planner, try setting a deadline to avoid overthinking. Too much research can sometimes lead to decision paralysis.

The love-at-first-sight buyers

For some, the decision is instant. They walk into a house and can already picture their furniture, family, and future there.

What they do:

  • Make emotional connections to properties, focusing on features like natural light, the layout, or the garden.
  • Quickly fall for a home that feels “right,” often making decisions within hours or even minutes.

While it’s great to know what you want and act fast, love-at-first-sight buyers should take a moment to pause and check practical considerations like structural integrity, commute times, and the local market.

Bring someone you trust to help you evaluate the less exciting details, like plumbing, roof conditions, or energy efficiency.

The first-time buyers or cautious explorers

Buying your first home or returning to the property market after a long break can feel overwhelming. These buyers are eager but understandably cautious.

What they do:

  • Visit a variety of properties to compare their options and get a better sense of the market.
  • Seek reassurance from family, friends, or estate agents before committing to a decision.

Cautious buyers might take several weeks or even months to decide. While it’s smart to be thorough, it’s also important not to let indecision hold you back when you find the right home.

Before viewing properties, list your must-haves (like a garden or a certain number of bedrooms) and deal-breakers to streamline your decision-making.

The experienced buyers

If you’ve been through the buying process before, you likely know what to expect and what works for you. These buyers are confident, efficient, and focused.

What they do:

  • Quickly evaluate a property’s potential based on previous experience.
  • Focus on practical considerations, like location, long-term value, and future growth.


Experienced buyers often make decisions within a day or two. While confidence is a strength, it’s still important to double-check critical details like the condition of the property or local planning permissions.

Keep an eye on market trends to ensure you’re not rushing into an overpriced deal, even if it feels like “the one.”

Factors that affect decision-making

No matter what type of buyer you are, some factors can influence how quickly (or slowly) you decide:

  •  Market conditions: In a fast-moving market, delays can mean missing out. However, rushing might lead to buyer’s remorse. Strike a balance by setting clear priorities.
  • Finances: Make sure you’ve calculated your budget, including deposits, mortgage eligibility, and additional costs like legal fees or moving expenses.
  • Survey results: Always allow time for surveys or inspections. These can uncover hidden issues, giving you the confidence to move forward or reconsider.
  • External factors: School catchments, commute times, and local amenities often play a big role in deciding whether a property suits your lifestyle.

Tips for making the right decision

  • Trust your instincts, but stay grounded: Emotional connections are important, but balance them with facts to make a sound investment.
  • Stick to your priorities: Whether it’s a large garden or being close to public transport, knowing your must-haves will help you focus on properties that work for you.
  • Don’t dwell too long: While being thorough is important, spending too much time debating can lead to missed opportunities.
  • Ask the experts: Your estate agent is there to guide you. Don’t hesitate to ask questions about the property or local market.

So, how long should you take?

There’s no magic number. Some buyers know instantly, while others need weeks to feel confident. The key is finding a balance — don’t rush a life-changing decision, but don’t let overthinking hold you back.

With decades of experience and local expertise, we’ll guide you through narrowing options to sealing the deal. Contact your nearest Ellis & Co branch today for expert advice. Let’s help you find the home that’s truly right for you.

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